Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
In this world, we cannot live without love. Even if someone grows up without love, as he grows up, he crave for it. You don't need to say 'I love you' to actually tells that you love that someone. All you need is to care about them and really knows their needs.
But, what is the line between love and obsession? You can love but don't be obsess. When you are obsess, that means you can't live without them that you would actually do something beyond imagination. When you are obsess, you will think that that someone also loves you really hard. But hey, like I said, you can love but don't be obsessed.
If you are a stalker, then you are obsess. Not 100% percent but you can actually lead to being a psycho. Amagad, don't! Okay, first. If you have a relationship with someone but not a marriage, then you will be like;
Don't be friend with this person. I don't like it.For me it is okay but if it comes to extend where you halang ((okay otak tak berfungsi dalam bahasa inggeris dah)) orang yang tersayang tu daripada buat aktiviti aktiviti yang dia nak buat, itu boleh dikatakan obses. Lagi teruk kalau kau asyik ikut dia pergi mana, tengok dia buat apa, perhatikan baju dia, kacau dia dengan telefon tengah malam ke. Semua benda ni boleh lead kepada kekerasan. Kalau kau rasa benda ni adalah untuk 'kebaikan', then you are wrong.
Don't go without me, dangerous.
Update me about your activities.
Benda benda macam tu sebenarnya boleh membawa kepada penderaan mental dan fizikal. Kalau orang yang kita suka tu tak suka kita, lepastu kita buat benda benda merepek tu, dia boleh tertekan dan trauma. Dia akan rasa sentiasa diperhati, tak selamat. Macam tu kau kata untuk kebaikan? Kau membawa keburukan kepada orang tu sebenarnya.
Orang yang stalk ni or stalker, is a very dangerous person. Diorang boleh buat apa je yang diorang rasakan betul tapi tak betul untuk benda lain. Buatnya orang yang kau suka tu pula bercinta dengan orang lain. Then you will be like go crazy and get mad like;
Kenapa kau pergi dekat dia? Apa kurangnya aku? Aku suka kau lama dah. Aku betul betul suka kau.
Okay, saya tahu awak suka dia. Tapi berbalik kepada agama. Kalau dah bukan jodoh awak dengan dia, jangan dipaksa. Mana datangnya sayang kalau apa yang awak buat tu hanya mendatangkan keburukan? Sampai kacau pasangan dia, tarik tarik depan orang ramai. Allah beri kita otak dan akal, gunakan. Jangan sampai orang sentuh tentang penampilan. Bertudung labuh, berhandsocks tapi gilakan milik orang? Sampai nak rentap rentap orang. OMG dah dewasa kot. Dah nak masuk 30.
Aku tak suka nak sentuh pasal penampilan sebab penampilan tak menunjukkan keimanan. Tapi tolong, jangan buat orang prejudis. "Baju dah elok tapi perangai tak semengah." Umur dah nak masuk 30 tapi perangai macam budak budak. Orang tu dah ada girlfriend. Yang kau pergi kacau, duk tanya tanya, sampai telefon mak laki yang kau suka tu amagad get a life.
Okay, that was a real story and it just happened. And I am currently watching a drama where the female lead actually stalk the male lead for quiet a while. As long as you don't bring any harm to it, it is okay. Well, it is a drama so of course the male lead will like the female lead back. But yeah, we live in a reality. Our lives can be like drama but not the entire drama. Live your life to the fullest.
Orang tak nak, jangan paksa. Kalau dah confess tapi kena reject, faham faham lah. Orang dah tak suka, jauhlah. ((Nasihat untuk diri sendiri.))
When we love someone, remember, don't across the love line. DO NOT BE OBSESS. Sayang kerana Allah, cinta kerana Allah. Sayang itu sendiri indah, jangan kotorkan ia.
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